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Phobias
Phobias can be really scary. I've seen grown men shake uncontrollably at the thought of touching a snake or popping a balloon. Whether it's a fear of flying, spiders, or whatever, it doesn't really matter. Phobias seem to be terribly misrepresented by the media, and are normally very simple to fix, usually in a single session. All my work with phobias comes under my guarantee .
The 5 Lies of Phobias
- They can be cured but you'll still feel uncomfortable.
- They can only be cured by gradual exposure to the stimulus over a long period of time.
- They can come back when you don't expect it.
- If you've had a phobia for a long time it will be harder to cure.
- You must find the cause of the original phobia to cure it.
The 5 Truths about Curing Phobias
- A proper phobia cure leaves the client feeling no animosity or fear towards the stimulus.
- This seems like an excuse for therapists to torture people to me. There should only be two exposures: One at the beginning of the treatment to calibrate the response and one at the end to check that the cure is successful.
- If a phobia is cured correctly then it will not come back. Once the unwanted behavior has been replaced by a preferable response there is no need for the behavior anymore.
- Phobias can become more ingrained over time, but this does not make them harder to remove.
- You do not need to know where a phobia came from to cure it, since he cure is based on the phobic process not on its content.
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